Well one more entry to the something cheesy series.
This one is from Karan Johar's first movie "Kuch Kuch Hota Hai", which although a nice movie , I don't like watching much because of the fact that Sharukh gets both the girls(Ya he can have anything and everything) and poor Salman gets nothing despite putting one of his best performance.
Anyways the scene goes like this -> Its the day on which Kajol is getting married and Sharukh comes there with his family. He goes upstairs to meet her and the dialouges goes like this
Sharukh -> "Congratulations"
Kajol (sadly)-> "Thanks."
Sharukh -> "Kya hua tum khush nahi ho? "
Kajol - > "Tum khush ho ?"
Sharukh -> "Haan..."
Kajol -> "Phir main khush kaise ho sakte hun ?...."
I never understood the meaning of the last line as I always thought that in love you are always happy to see the other person happy (Ya I still do :)) and here she is saying this line "Tum khush ho to main khush kaise ho sakte hun ?"
Ok , I agree the other way is always true "Tum udas ho to main khush kaise ho sakti/sakta hun" (Ya I still do :))
But this line of hers never went inside my sane mind :)
But ever since I became total insane, my psycho mind started understanding the depth of this line (Ya theres is a depth to this line :))..My psycho mind(the extreme level of day dreaming) says it is said because you know the thing for which the other person is happy is something for which you are not happy or you feel ki even after knowing/feeling (Ya I still feel that the other person do know/feel :)) that you are not happy if the other person keep being happy then you feel that your being sad is of no matter of concern to that person and you say to him/her that "Tum khush ho to main khush kaise ho sakta/sakti hun" .........I know it sounds too complicated and may be I have failed to put it in correct set of words but nevertheless its all crap....
I feel the other person is not bound to care for your happiness and you have to be happy irrespective of how that person feels and you have every right to be sad but not only because you want the other person to notice and feel sad, in fact you should be happy that they are happy (Ya I always felt and do feel so :) irrespective of my actions)