My stare-mate :)

Just few days back I was telling myself that age is just a number and nothing changes as such but then I was made to realize this thought.

 

When we were in early-adult stage , every girl we used to like either had a boy friend or was in love with someone else who din't share the same feeling as hers, in other words not interested in us even if they are single :-P. But still we were asked to have hope that you still have chance. In fact Innocent Devil once very rightly quoted for the category 1 girls that "Don't be disheartened if she has a boy friend, rather it means that she agrees to the prospect of having a boy friend". But somehow with age those girls either got married or had new boy friends.

Now when we are in our middle adult age , which for the bigger mortals can be called the peak of adult age, the girls we like are either married or are engaged to be married.

So this post is about one such girl. Although I am not sure if she belongs to either of the two categories I mentioned for this age as I am yet to see any visible stuffs that confirms that she is either married or engaged but the confidence that I have on my luck she is definitely bound to be a member of either of these categories.

Coming to the topic in hand . We two share an unique relation of being each other's stare-mate For the 10 seconds my bus stops at her stop(she works in some other company) from where my colleague boards our bus , we stare at each other. And now this has been so regular that sometimes I feel like passing a smile. Even when our bus doesn't stop if there is no one to board from that stop, we do stare at each other. Although stare sounds rude but its not something coordial or because we like each other, its just an habit we have developed naturally. I agree initially it may be just me or she caught me staring but now its routine. She stares even when she is wearing sun-glasses which I can catch from the thin glass of the sun glasses.

I am not jumping any gun and saying that I like her very much, I mean she is kind of sweet but nothing more than that...Just something fun and may be a topic to share n write about....... :)

Why get married ??? Part I....

For long time I had the cushion of having an elder sister who is yet to get married and then the fact that I am quite confident of talking my parents out of getting me married.

But now since its very likely that my sis is gonna get married in a year or two and also my parents every now n then brings up the topic of getting me sacrificed too, I have started to weigh this possibilty of scummbing to their pressure. Another reason being the fact that in the last few months I have seen parents of my friends going through so much while arranging for their weddings , be it meeting or talking with the reluctant parents of the bride, or searching for prospective brides for them, or making arrangements etc. So somehow I don't want to cause undue tensions among my folks by being too adamant.

But I still want to plan everything out according to my terms.

It seems its gonna be a huge post so I plan to split it into two, so that those souls who somehow will be generous enough to start reading it won't be forced to leave it midway :)

The first part I plan to talk about is why I don't want to get married and in the second I will talk what all I want first to happen.

Ok so coming to this post.

There are two primary reason for my aversion to getting married.

Even when I used to think that someday I may be in a relationship with "Her" I never visualised myself getting married to her. Ok thats another thing that with her I never wanted anything other than being a closest friend but still one or two times when it did cross my mind I never felt the conviction for that to happen. This was because, also happens to be the second reason, I am not comfortable with the fact that in India a marriage is not just the official bonding of two people ,rather its coming together of two whole families and that too not only at the second generation level but also at generation preceding to that. I just cannot accept that people who will have no say or interest in my life will play a role during that time. To be more clear I am most uncomfortable with the ceremonies around marriage. I don't understand why we have lavish ceremonies and why can't we keep it to some low key. To most of the people it doesn't matter that you are getting married , for them its just food, fun and photos. I do appreciate some genuine people and the fun we have but I really don't understand the need for all that fuss. I will prefer a low key court marriage followed by dinner with our immediate family.

So coming to the first primary reason,its the fact I din't want an arrange marriage because I feel an arrange marriage is a forced marriage between two people who leave spending time together would have never talked at all if they have not been asked initially by their parents. I know marriage's second name is adjustment , adjustment with your wishes , with your wants , with your desires but atleast in love marriage you or the other person is not adjusting with their choice. I agree that in arranged marriage too we get a chance to select the one we want to marry but still since the first meeting till the day it gets fixed there is lot of pretention and favorable environment that makes it happen. Also you are asked to decide in few meetings. Somehow it lacks the genuineness of love marriage where you genuinely get to know and spend time with each other beforehand.

To be continued.....

Not with DP please....

OK long time back or to be precise on May 13th 2009, I posted I love PZ and the reason was PZ looked like Her. And as result of how things went in the last few years I kind of couldn't look at PZ. Infact Dil Chahta Hai despite being one of my favorite movies, I only used to watch the first half, till the time Aamir moves to Australia where he falls in love with PZ and after that I use to skip till the last scene when Aamir meets Akshaye in the hospital.

And last few months ever since I stopped looking at her, I could look at times at PZ especially when she has those dimples as that is one thing only PZ have and she doesn't. Surprisingly since I follow PZ on twitter I even thought of dropping a personal message to PZ telling her all this :-P :-P Thank God I din't.

Now although a lot of things have changed and I am quite better and started accepting a lot of things but now something similar is happening with DP. Ever since she played I-don't-love-you-till-the-last-scene kind of roles in Love Aaj Kal and Break Ke Baad, I somehow having the same UNNNNNNNNn feeling towards her. I kind of dislike her I-am-very-clear , I-dont-need-you n I-am-happy-without-you expression and roles . Already Sonam Kapoor is giving her a fight in my Ohh-you-are-pretty list and now all this ... Mannnnn I seriously don't want this to happen to her.

Movies galore....

Of late I am on movie watching spree and have watched some already –seen and some never-seen-before-by-me movies.

Will talk more or less about the ones I saw for the first time.

Foremost I saw Harry Potter and Deathly Hallows Part 1. Well like with most of the movies being made from books this one too had the same problem. It seemed to move too quickly. Having read the book, especially the last part so many times I somehow had every scene already drawn in my mind and maybe that’s why it seemed that everything was happening so fast without much detail. Obviously they cannot show everything in 2 n ½ hour. Nevertheless it was an ok types movie and I am really looking forward to the last installment. So Goblet of fire and the first two installments still remain the ones that I like the most in this movie series.

Second was Mr and Mrs Smith. Somehow I never liked Angelina Jolie, so surprisingly (I thought it out after watching this movie) this was the first movie that I ever saw of this girl. And man I can understand why she is so popular. She definitely have an attractive face, won’t call pretty or beautiful but her face has a kind of sensuality in it. Well since Ocean’s trilogy is one of my favorite movie series so I anyway like Brad Pitt a lot. He has got some style. It’s a story two killers who are married together for 5-6 years (that’s what Brad Pitt says, not 5 nor 6 ,its 5-6) but both of them don’t know that the other is a killer too until they are setup by the their respective agency to kill each other. So then start the cat n mice fight to kill each other until they realize they cannot kill each other and then they combine to protect each other. Well the movie started well but the second half lost the charm. But their chemistry and first half was really worth watching.

Third was a highly recommended movie by the name “500 days of Summer”. And as the narrator says at the start its not a regular boy-girl love story. The first interesting thing about this movie is that its only after 5 minutes of the movie that you understand that Summer is the name of the female lead (at least that was the case with me as I have not read the reviews earlier) and after that the title made sense 500 days spent for a girl. Second interesting thing was the character of the little sister of the male lead. She was barely 10-12 year old girl who acted as his counselor. Her role was really amazing and the way she advised him on his love life and after the break up with the girl, was quite impressive. So this is a movie everyone who has loved and lost should see in fact not necessary for you to have lost but you will understand the essence more if you have lost ;). It’s a story that shows the 500 days in life of Tom starting from the first day he met the girl but the interesting part was the days were shown in random order. I don’t know but this movie somehow is one that could be both helpful and dangerous for someone who is trying to forget someone…lol

So that’s all for the day..I know an update on the books is still pending and definitely on my cards but till then enjoy :)

Love as misunderstood by me.....

Few days back (I don't exactly remember when) I was watching DDLJ. The ideal filmi love story where the guy meets the girl, initially there are those I-don't-like-you fights, then they fall in love but by that time the girls marriage is already fixed so then guy tries to win over her family especially her angry dad and at the end her father agrees and everything is just perfectly fine.

So I remember that when this movie was released I was quite young and was in school and this was and is quite popular romantic movie among people especially girls because it portray the concept of there is a prince charming somewhere for every girl who will one day come and sweep her off her feet. So if I talk with respect to hindi films there is a Raj somewhere for every girl. 

Now this post is not about those girls rather this is my take on what is there in it for guys. There are three instances in the movie which I would have love to live (ironically I cannot live the first two but I think I will experience the third one for the same girl). The first instance is when Simran asks Raj what kind of girl he wants. He just answers "Someone like you ". 

Second when they are standing on the bridge and he his playing the infamous " Tujhe dekha to ye jaana sanam" tune and he tells her looking into her eyes that " I love you" and when she is about to believe him he just says I was kidding.  So envious of him that he could do that.


And third which is the only one I will get to experience is when they are parting at the station and she asks him "Tum Meri Shaadi pe aaoge na?" and he just says "NO".

Love as misunderstood by me ...

It was Valentines Day yesterday, although I started writing something sad, filled with anger but as I went to see my Didibhai this weekend and on 13th we were discussing something, the after thought of that discussion made me think of the feelings that I have captured in the below poem. 

Thought of writing in English first but somehow completed the hindi version first. Have tried to capture poetically my feelings and hope it has come good.

Jab bhi baat hoti hai Mohabbat ke fasano ki, 

Khud bakhud aa jati ho tum Jehn me mere khyalo ki.

Geet jaise hi koi bajta hai mere kano me, 

Tumhari tasveer hu bahu ban jati hai un tarano me.

Dekh kar kisi bhi komal shishu ki chehre ki khushi,

Yaad aa jati hai tumhari wo khilkhilati madhur hansi.

Jab bhi ghatti hai koi, achi buri ghatna, 

Vyakul hokar mann ka wo tere liye sab ratna.

Kha ke kuch bhi swadist, 

Chak kar lajeej khaana,

Dil me jagti hai hasrat,

ki tumko bhi hai chakkhana.

Phulon ki mehkti khushboo, 

Panchiyon ka chehchana,

Aisi jaagahon pe aksar 

Dhundha hai tera theekana.

Issi tarah to humne tujhse Mohabbat ki hai,

Na tujhse kuch kaha hai, 

Or na hi mere dosto ne kuch sunni hai.

Bade dino baad....

Pata Nahi Najakat Hoti Hai,

Ya Teri Shararat Hoti Hai,

Par Tu Jab Bhi Dekh Kar Muskurati Hai,

Khuda Kasam Qyamat Hoti Hai….

Another weekend but not an ordinary one...

This weekend was simply one of the best I had since a long time. Its not that something great happened but the small things that I did, gave me an immense sense of satisfaction. 

Ok Saturday I got up around 9, read the newspaper, took my bath as I had go to bank with my friend. Then had my breakfast. Then my friend told me that we will go by 12 so I just sat and played guitar. Then I reached crown plaza where the bank was located. I saw its hoarding on the first floor and went upstairs but there I couldn't spot their office so I asked someone and they told me that its on third floor so I raced to third floor but there I found that its some other division of that bank and they told me its on ground floor. 

So on third floor I spotted a fleet of stairs which I haven't seen any normal public use. I thought its because normal public is not aware of it. So I sprinted down those stairs but so many people always told me that don't think so much , I soon found out why sometimes they are so correct. The moment I reached ground floor and tried to push open the door to my amusement I found it locked. So I had to tire back to top floor again and walk down the normal route :-) to ground floor and went to the bank. There I asked where does Mr. O sits. The guy at the inquiry told me that  he sits on first floor. Huh. So I finally reached first floor and looked carefully among the various shops and finally I spotted their office. 

So I entered inside and went to Mr O, sir I need this document which I had to submit. So he asked me my loan account number and as I din't have that so I gave him my name and he said Aapka to abhi approve nahi hua? I Said oh and asked him to check for my friend. He said Unka ho gaya. Then after waiting for a while he said I will check for you. 

In the meantime my friend has arrived and he also went to third floor straight but because I had done his part so he din't have to run much and I called him to first floor directly. 

The bank guy told me that your office verification is pending and I need to send an email from my office id. I said it will be difficult as my office is closed today and I can't access the office network from home. Then my friend told me that he can access office network from his laptop. So we now ran to his home. So after sending a mail we went back to crown. There he said that yes I got the mail but the person who will approve is not reachable. So I inquired about by what time is his office open and we left. 

On my way I purchased a sketch book. Oh I forgot to mention a dear friend of mine long time back has started sketching and she used to share her creation with me and those used to motivate me too. Ok I know I used to dread making diagrams in school but somewhere I always wanted to someday sketch too and I somehow feel confident that I can be good at that. And ya this is the same friend for whom I purchased the sketch book few weeks back. 

So on reaching home I got my internet connection reinstated and after that I also got a message from bank that my Loan has been approved. So I again raced back to crown plaza to collect that document. My friend had already collected it the last time we went there so I was alone. So while giving me the document he told me Are aapko to itne ka loan mil nahi sakta, you have to give me letter to reduce your amount. I thought are mere dost ko to bina kuch bole de diya. Then he told he has to give that too. Then he gave me the document and while checking I spotted that he has entered the year as 2009 hmmm. So I got that corrected and left but after walking few paces I realised that the same mistake must have been there in my friends letter. So I went back and got a new print out for him. After that I went again to give a letter. 

Then I went to McDonald and bought three burgers to take home. There I met two of my college friends after a long time. Then I went back to home. So as net was working I sat and uploaded the Bengal trip pics on facebook which I am yet to make public as some editing is left. And as the active x control was not working I had to select each pic manually. In total there were close to 200 pics 80 from a previous picnic trip I had with my office friends. So by the time I finished I was too exhausted to edit and add captions to it. And also ManU's match has started so sat and watch them win after a long time. Then I slept little exhausted with the days work. 

Next morning I got up around 10 and as already planned I have to watch 3 Idiots with Mom. So as soon as she got free with her daily chores, we too sat and watched it. Nice movie. I don't know if I had mentioned it earlier or not but I had already watched it with my friends. It was fun to watch with Mom as always. 

So after the movie ended I sat and started my love with sketching (So I am back in love with something). Oh it was fun. Had difficulties in making circles but by the time I stopped which was around 10 in the night I was happy with myself. I am little sceptical about whether I should share it on my blog or not. May be I will wait till I have sketched something substantial.

I had difficulties in making eyes and the first sketch I made was of a Girl, mom told me that it doesn't look like a girl. So I edited few features and by the time I said I am finished drawing it she agreed that ya to certain extent it does look like a girl.Hmmm...

In between I also played guitar and learned to somewhat play " Give me some sunshine." :-) :-).

Then in the night I continued with the book O Jerusalem. I have just read 200 pages out of 700 :-(. 

Anyways overall I fun weekend fulfilling one of my wishes. Now I think next wish to fulfill is theater. :-) :-)

I saw a Dream ...

I saw a dream,

No not while sleeping at night.

It was dream seen with open eyes,

in broad day light.

I saw a dream,

A dream of impossible sights.

Of places, cities and towns,

filled with faces happy n bright.

I saw a dream,

Of times when you can play in the sun and dance in the rain.

Or run like wind in the fields of grain.

I saw a dream,

Filled with moments of laughter,

Moments of joy,

Moments when you can behave like a one year old boy.

I saw a dream,

A dream of everything true,

When you don't have to be called fake,

You can be the way who are you.

I saw a dream,

Where dreams come true.

Where the one you love says I Love You.

I saw a dream,

people talking everyday.

Expressing what all they feel,

Saying all the things they have to say.

I saw a dream,

When I can be you,

You can be me.

When there are no separate God but only one thy.

I saw a dream,

Ya it was a dream,

A dream to see everything,

just like a dream.

I saw a dream. I saw a dream

Some updates and weekend ...

In Friday's Garfield strip Jon says "There are things I never realized about being a Boyfriend. I have awesome responsibilities now. I Have to shave on weekends"

Thank God I don't have such responsibilities and don't have to shave except on Mondays or special occasions.

So I shared the same strip with Ram Prasad who is very irregular with shaving. He told me, no problem, anyways I only shave on weekends.

There is a positive development in that love story. It seems Soni is also a Brahmin, a Punjabi Brahmin. So that means my title for that series of post is not exactly applicable as its now just a inter cultural relation not an inter caste one. Feel that's better. And anyways the title need not be taken literally. Anyways will update on that topic if something substantial happens.

As it was Sunday so we decided to do some shopping for Sankranti and also mom had to buy few things for winter. But as someone has very rightly said that "Chances of going to a shop to buy a loaf of bread, and coming out with only the loaf of bread is one in a million." So we ended purchasing a hell lot of things including a jacket, a pair of shoes and two trousers for myself. And as we went to C R Park (Mini Kolkatta in New Delhi) I purchased misthi doi and some sweets and dairy milk too. I am having too much sweets nowadays. First Bengal, then Gajar ka halwa yesterday and now these sweets but still when I was having dosa at one of the food joint I couldn't resist the temptation to have some hot jalebis which was being sold nearby and bought some.

All in all a lovely weekend. More so because after a long time god gave me a chance to be good to someone and prove that I too am a nice guy and I hope in the coming times I won't disappoint him.

Brahmin ka ladka and kayastha ki ladki contd...

Just after reaching home I was surfing through the tv channels and by chance landed on a movie channel which was airing Dil Chahta Hai. Just the last 20 minutes were left. Its one movie which although I see every time its aired but only the first half till Aamir and Priety's love story starts. After that I can't watch it. But today since it was coming to end I just watched.

The scene where Aamir proposes to Priety on her wedding day was being shown and it just made me think what I have always believed that if the girl n boy both have strong mutual feelings for each other then they just get filled with so much confidence that they can take on any hardships or obstacle that might come in their path.

So just after watching this scene I thought about writing this post.

So as I was telling that my friend and that girl(That girl sounds little rude so I will have to quickly think of some nicknames for both). So lets call them Ram Prasad and Soni. So Ram Prasad is UP ka brahmin and Soni is Punjab di Kudi. ( Although Ram Prasad sounds like a UP Ka Bhaiya but he is not. He is a hunk)

So if Ram Prasad is shudh Sakahari then Soni relishes eating all kind of non veg products. Although for Ram Prasad, Soni has stopped eating non veg (something which I don't agree because I may not stop eating something for someone so why should someone else, but obviously when in Love you do anything). This is something that Ram Prasad thinks are part of numerous reasons on which his family will protest. Another being the fact that Soni is Manglik something that is worse then the person being a criminal. But our Ram Prasad is an Idealistic guy so he thinks these things are immaterial and also he says that if he finalise a girl then he will try not to let the families match the kundalis even as he doesn't want any mismatch to cause any negative psychological effect.

I don't feel not matching the kundalis is practically possible but not taking any mismatch seriously is.

Now Soni's family want her to marry a Punjabi guy and even Ram Prasad's family too will want him to marry someone from their own caste. So overall Miyan Bibi are going to be razi but might be some issues with the kazis.

So all this and what I felt while watching Dil Chagta Hai that is what I want to share.

When he was sharing all these problems I told him see if both of you get serious about each other then no matter how big issues might arise but we will definitely try our best to resolve them. We are not going to give up without at least talking to both set of families. We will give our best to convince n resolve the differences.

I don't know but somehow I also get that confidence in those cases, for my friends, to face up to their issues and also the believe that they will be overcome with effort. I always feel and tell my friends that I will talk for them in that case but won't give up without trying.

He also feels that may be their relation itself will run into some problems or conflicts or some differences will arise between the two. I agree its too premature right now and you cannot predict future but I feel Best relations are not the ones which don't have any problems but they are the one which overcome all problems successfully.

So hoping for the best.

Brahmin ka Ladka or Kayastha ki Ladki.....

I pondered a lot on the title of this series. Initially I thought to name it as Love as misunderstood by me series, a series I was planning from long but the dissimilarities between this and what situation I wanted to write about is quite prominent so dropped the name at the last moment.

Well one of my close friend has fallen in love.

Ok I agree its difficult to define love but nevertheless as misunderstood by me,

Love is a mixture of feelings whose cause you can't find.
Feelings whose intensity you can never imagine.

"I never thought I could talk to someone for so long.
I have never been so intensely assertive about things related to anyone.
No matter whatever is in between I want to get over it and spend time with her."

Felt a kind of happiness hearing these lines.

I could feel it in his eyes, in his body language.

So as the title of this post suggests that its an inter caste relation so if anyone of you have read Two States by Chetan Bhagat then you will understand how interesting it will get.

If you have not read it yet then I will recommend reading it, for me I think its his best book till date.

Anyways hopefully I will keep posting about this love story.

Quote...

After a long time I guess I have read a positive love quote ...

"Don't say we aren't right for each other, the way I see it, we are not right for anybody else"

~ Anonymous

Random Thought XXXII

You should love yourself otherwise no one else will :-)

Quote..

"In real love you want the other person's good. In romantic love you want the other person."
--Margaret Anderson

Its good if both merge into one but if thats not the case then you have a constant fight with yourself trying to make sure that both don't contradict or at least the first remains the main motive.


This is my 100th published post :)

FRIENDS Again...

Well yesterday I reached home little late owing to the heavy traffic jam on the way and as always as soon as I reached home I switched on the TV to watch FRIENDS. I could not make out which season they are playing but there were few incidents in the two episodes that are worth mentioning (It was season 4, Episode 5-6). It involves the other character apart from the six of them , who I feel is also an eternal part of the series. The character is Gunther.

Well in the first episode , the incident was as follows:

Phoebe catches cold and because of that her voice becomes little harsh but she thinks that adds a peculiarity to her Singing. But soon she gets well but Monica catches it, so she does all the weird stuffs to get it back so that she can again sing like when she had cold. But unfortunately despite all her weird efforts she fails to catch cold. Then at the coffee house, just when Gunther was serving coffee , he sneezes. Seeing this Phoebe asks him to kiss so that she can catch the cold and before Gunther could react, she kisses him.

Now the funny part starts , at the end of the episode when they are running the credits, Gunther approaches Rachel and following is the conversation that goes.

Gunther: Rachel?

Rachel: Yeah.

Gunther: I don't know if you heard about what happened between me and Phoebe the other day_

Rachel: No!

Gunther: Well, we kissed. I-I-I didn't initiate the kiss, but-but I also didn't stop it, and I've been feeling guilty.

Rachel: (confused) Okay.

Gunther: So umm, are we cool?

Rachel: (really confused) Okay.

Gunther: I knew you'd understand.

(Gunther walks away, leaving Rachel with a `What just happened?' look on her face.)

It was so funny....... Unexpressed love can at times make you do stupid things but it can be the best thing that might have happened.

Well in the following episode another incident happens between the two, which goes like this...

[Scene: Central Perk. Rachel is sitting on the couch alone working on a crossword puzzle. Gunther is there, going into the back room.]

Rachel: I did it! Oh! I finished it! I did it all by myself! And there's nobody to hug!

[From the background we hear a crash and Gunther comes running out of the back room, pushing people aside, reaching for Rachel.]

Gunther: Move!

[Gunther slips and falls just before reaching the back of the couch. Monica and Phoebe come into Central Perk.]

Rachel: Hey! Hey, you guys, I finished the crossword all by myself! Hug me!

[Gunther gets up slowly from behind the couch and walks away sadly]

Poor Gunther...........Still remember him expressing his love to Rachel in the last episode of last season and she like most, not taking it the way he meant, just replies I love you too.....

Jo hume chahiye...

Few days back I was talking to one of my friend who happens to be a hunk like the one on which girls drool...so he was telling me about some indirect proposal that he got , which he simply laughed off.....Ok now this guy din't laugh off at her feelings , it was more of a laugh like "Who me ???..Are you ok?..You have developed a good sense of humor of late "...as he is so critical of himself. And also the girl din't had those kind of "feelings " to be taken seriously. Now how did I get to this is another story but with due respect to that girl who happens to be another friend of mine , I know she wasn't serious at all....and this episode itself wasn't the one which was to be taken seriously, it was more of a leg pulling thing and also there is a chance that the girl was just pulling his leg too

So hearing that these golden words uttered by Akshay Kumar ringed in my head

"Jo hume chahiye usse hum nahi chahiye , or Jisko hum chaiye wo Kisko chaiye..."....lol

Seriously this post was written with good humor without the intention of maligning anyones image....and if it has I am extremely sorry. Now when I read the original post even I feel that it gave wrong interpretation.

The only point in the post that I wanted to make was that these things in life happen for sure where you love someone who doesn't love you and at the same time that someone loves someone else who doesn't love him/her..... and no one will let go of that desire for that someone although things would have been much easier for you if at least you made the one who loves you happy, by returning their love because at the end of the day what everyone wants is someone who loves them and not only the one whom they love. They can always develop love for someone who loves them but getting someone to love you is the tougher task.

Tum saath hote ho....

One of my friend once shared a line by Mir which goes like this

"Tum saath hote ho jab koi dusra nahi hota....."

Which I improvised as ...

"Tum saath hote ho jab koi dusra nahi hota, isliye khud se dosti ki hai, taki kabhi tanha na ho....."

And by the laws of corollary following is also true at times

"Hum nazar aate hai jab koi dusra nahi hota, warna bheedh me humara hona na hona ek samaan hai...."

FRIENDS......

Well as part of my daily routine , after reaching home around 7:00 without even keeping my bag down, I quickly run to the TV room and switch on Star World to catch on the episode of Friends.

So a part of yesterday's episode showed something which was quite cheesy as well as touchy.

Not going much into the background of things will straight away come to the point.

Ross had to decide whether he should stay with Julie or break up with her to be with Rachel who has confessed to him about having feelings for him.

So here is Ross with Chandler and Joe in their apartment, discussing what he should do. So Chandler who has recently purchased a Laptop and was boosting about using it , suggested that they
should make a list of pros and cons for both of the girls using the spread sheet on his notebook.

Joe suggests that lets only list the cons as they are more interesting. So they start with Rachel

Ross - She is little spoilt. She is a waitress whereas Julie is paleontologist. etc... and Joe adds she has chubby ankels......then Ross says I don't know what else.

So Chandler seeing him worried ,says lets do Julie now and Ross thinks and then say...her problem is "She is not RACHEL"

So the last line sounded so cool.... when you love someone and they are not with you then who so ever you try to see next, you try to find the resemblance of that same person in them...you try to find the things , relate the things to the previous person and you will never be successful because every person is different,what you like in one person is not the reason that makes you like the other as every one is so different from everyone else but we still try to search the same person in everyone....we just can't let go and except the other person for what they are or what they are not....

Although I couldn't complete the episode as I had to run for my guitar class but after that Rachel comes to that room and Ross has just arrived after breaking up with Julie so he tells Rachel and asks her for a walk and as he goes to fetch her coat , Rachel somehow stares at Chandler's laptop and sees her name , so she pesters them to let her see what is written and although the three guys try to divert or tell her that Chandler is writting a short story in which one of the character's name is Rachel but she still grabs that sheet which Chandler has by mistake already printed now and reads all the cons that are written for her and when she comes to Julie's list ..the only line their is that "She is not RacheM"(lol..Chandler has mistyped it) and she shouts at Ross and gets angry reading what he thinks of her and when he says that for Julie he wrote She is not Rachel and not Rachem , she says how would I know that Rachem is not some word related to Paleontology as she is just waitress ......I couldn't see further as I had to leave and they run a back to back episode daily from 7-8...so I have missed it and even the next..and I also don't remember my past viewings so don't know how it was corrected.

But nevertheless as always its the best thing to do in the whole day.

Kami dhundta hun....

Teri aankhon mein apni Chhavi dhundta hun,
Teri labzo mein apni Hansi dhundta hun.
Yakeen hai mujhe ki tujhe mujh se pyar nahi,
Bas us yakeen me koi Kami dhundta hun.....